I was wondering if any one on the board has some advice to help me with a major problem I have in my life right now. Four weeks ago my ex-husband came into my home while I was at work and took my kittens away to give to people he works with. He had been told NOT to touch them - but he still went ahead and did what he wanted - with the help of our rather vulnerable 14 year old. He had told her stuff like "You can't afford to feed and keep all these animals" - etc etc. Anyway - there was...

Something happened in the past few days that has changed my family - maybe for good. This has caused me great distress - both because of what actually was done and because of the attitude of both people involved. Wednesday I was at work, and my youngest daughter rang me and said she couldn't find our kittens anywhere in the house. We have six kittens that are roughly 6 months old. Anyways, to cut a long sad story short - it transpired over the course of a few hours that my ex -husband t...